إن المواجهة والعنف الذي يمكن أن تولده مخيفان. لكن في مجال المعالجة الاجتماعية؛ المواجهة أو "خوض الصراعات" هي الطريقة الوحيدة لاستعادة الروابط مع الآخرين. يستعرض هذا المقال الطرق التي يمكنك تطبيقها لتحويل العنف إلى صراع صحّي. [toc] يُعتبر الصراع ضرورياً في العلاقات البشرية في يومنا هذا بسبب عدم وجود مسائل مسلّم بها بالنسبة للجميع. سواء كان الصراع يتعلق بالعلاقات بين الرجال والنساء أو الآباء والأطفال أو مدراء العمل والمتعاونين أو بين الجيران؛ والذين تختلف قواعدهم الأخلاقية الخاصة، فقد تطورت المعايير الأخلاقية كثيراً لدرجة أننا لم نعد نتمكن من الاتفاق على أساس القواعد المشتركة فقط. يقول "شارل روجزمان" اختصاصي علم النفس…
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