ملخص: قد نتورّط في علاقات سامة ومؤذية لنا نفسياً؛ لكنّنا لا نعي ذلك أو ننكره. وما يزيد الطين بلة هو أننا نتجاهل الإشارات التحذيرية التي تصلنا ونصرّ على الاستمرار في هذه العلاقات، وغالباً ما نفسّر قرارنا غير المنطقي بأسباب محددة. هذا المقال يفسّر هذا السلوك ويقدم المبررات التي قد تقع في فخّها. لا بدّ أنك التقيت يوماً ما بأشخاص آذوك أكثر ممّا أحسنوا إليك، سواء في علاقاتك العاطفية أو الودّية أو العائلية أو المهنية. بعض هؤلاء الأشخاص يكشف عن صفاته المؤذية مع تقدّم علاقتك به شيئاً فشيئاً ويضرّ بصحتك النفسية؛ لكنّ الطابع التدريجي لهذا الإيذاء يجعلك عاجزاً عن إدراك سلبية…
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