ملخص: أشارت عالمة النفس المتخصصة في تربية الأطفال، ماريون كونيار (Marion Cognard) إلى أن الأمهات يردن أن "يحاربن على الجبهات كلها"؛ إذ يردن رعاية أطفالهن وتلبية حاجات أزواجهن والنجاح في حياتهن المهنية والتخطيط لمستقبلهن العملي؛ بل والتحكم في عواطفهن! وهكذا يجدن أنفسهن أمام رغبات عديدة ومتناقضة في بعض الأحيان؛ ما يولّد لديهن صراعات نفسية عنيفة. بعيداً عن التصوُّر الحالم للأمومة الكاملة والمثالية، تشعر أمهات كُثُر بأنهن قد فشلن في أداء الدور المنوط بهن؛ ما يدفعهن إلى الشعور بالذنب والقلق. وسنحاول في السطور التالية تحليل هذا الموقف ملتمسين المشورة من أبرز الخبراء المختصين لمساعدتك على التخلص من هاجس "الشعور بأنك أم…
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