هل سمعت عن متلازمة المحتال؟ هي حالة قوية من الشك الذي يصيب الشخص حول مدى استحقاقه لأي إنجاز شخصي، وينتهي به الأمر إلى الشك بالفعل في مقدراته الشخصية. فيما يلي يقدم لنا غايل شاتلين بيري نصائح للتخلص من هذه المتلازمة. [toc] لتوضيح متلازمة المحتال، فأنا أحب أن أستحضر عبارة المدير الفني السابق ورئيس التصميم في شركة سبوتيفاي (Spotify)، توبايس فان شنايدر عندما قال: "قد أتلقى 100 مجاملة، وأختار تصديق الشخص الوحيد الذي قال أنني لا أستحقها". هذه هي متلازمة المحتال باختصار. على عكس ما توصل إليه عالما النفس الأميركيان والباحثان في جامعة ولاية جورجيا، بولين روز كلانس وسوزان إيمز في…
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