ملخص: إذا كنتِ ممن ينسون أنفسهن ويتخذن القرارات لإرضاء الآخرين، فربما تعانين متلازمة الفتاة الطيبة؛ وهي مشكلة أكثر جدية مما تبدو عليه! كلنا سبق لنا اتخاذ قرار نؤْثر فيه مصلحة الآخرين على مصلحتنا، فثمة مواقف عديدة نراجع فيها ترتيب أولوياتنا. لكن يبدو أن بعض الناس يميل إلى التفكير دائماً في الآخرين قبل التفكير في نفسه، وكثيرا ما يُنظر إلى هؤلاء الأشخاص باعتبارهم مسالمين وطيّعين أكثر من اللازم؛ بل يُعتبرون أحياناً بلا شخصية. فماذا لو كان طبع المجاملة المفرطة الذي يميز هؤلاء متلازمة محددة تسمَّى "متلازمة الفتاة الطيبة"؟ ما هي متلازمة الفتاة الطيبة؟ تُعدّ متلازمة الفتاة الطيبة أو "عقدة الفتاة الطيبة" نمطاً…
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